{ The LTR online monthly gathering is by-invite-only for leaders who are members of IDEA, in the dating industry. Invites come from Mark Brooks. Please reply to Mark's email invite, or email mark@courtlandbrooks.com if you have any questions that aren't answered here }
LTR stands for Love, Technology, Relationships and is the online event for leaders of companies that bring people together for all forms of relationships, via technology. See www.LTR.us
Welcome to Edition 23 of the LTR online conference experience which is our Ten Year Club edition. In this edition we will hear from a panel of CEOs and leaders who have worked in the dating industry for 14 to 34 years. You'll observe 200 years of experience in 55 minutes.
LTR is a fast-paced 90 minutes, all-in.  Join us at 1pm EST (New York time) on Wed 7th June. We'll have 30 mins of networking followed by 55 mins panel discussions and Q&A, and then another networking session, for as long as you want to hang out.
LTR is designed to help you get to know other CEOs and leaders of online dating companies. This event is small, focused, and by-invite-only. You'll meet a diverse group that can help you think outside the box, inform your business growth strategy, and inspire you.
The LTR conference is hosted and attended by the Internet Dating Excellence Association (IDEA). If you got an email invite, you're in the group, and very welcome to join us. Email mark@courtlandbrooks.com to inquire about joining IDEA, which is entirely free.
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At LTR you'll hear ideas on growth opportunities and user experience, challenging issues worthy of collaboration, interesting new technology and inspirational and informative stories to help enhance your understanding and sharpen up your strategy. You'll have the opportunity to ask questions.
LTR is a unique and uplifting and essential event that will help you and your company align with the best of what the dating and social discovery industries will become. LTR will help you evolve and help you connect with and get more perspective from your esteemed peers.
This LTR is sponsored and supported by:
  Livebox - The top livestreaming video and creator economy platformÂ
Along with:
   Courtland Brooks - The Internet dating business consultancy-agency
  Matchmaker.com - Raise your ARPU by referring qualified users to experienced matchmakersÂ
Mark runs the niche agency-consultancy Courtland Brooks focusing on strategy, marketing and business development for Internet dating companies and online social communities. He's served POF, The Meet Group, and 120+ companies since 2005. Prior to this, he worked with Friendster, and ran an adventure club in Silicon Valley. Mark has been quoted in press 288 times (18 times in WSJ).Â
He heads IDEA.gp (since 2007)  hosts LTR, and Online Personals Watch (since 2004) .
Mark is a graduate of Harvard Business School (PLD) and London School of Economics (Exec. MSc, Behavioral Science).
Mark is committed to helping dating and social industry executives connect, learn and share, and get inspired for an even more effective and prosperous future.
Mark has spent 25 years in the dating business.
Jens is an entrepreneur and digital product leader with over two decades of experience in web and mobile apps development.
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Jens founded a European social network called Kwick! in 1999, which was sold to Kiwibox in 2011. That same year he created Jaumo, a social dating app network which now has 50M+ members. Jaumo is in 90 countries and 59 languages. Jens joined the dating industry in 1999.
Jens has spent 24 years in the dating business.
Saichithra Swaminathan is a professional in the field of matrimony services, having contributed significantly to the success of Matrimony.com since 2000. With a strong focus on product development for platforms such as BharatMatrimony, CommunityMatrimony, and Global matrimony services, Saichithra brings over 20 years of experience across various domains including Product, Technology, and Digital Marketing.
In addition to her expertise in Online Marketing and Social Media, Saichithra has a keen understanding of open-source technologies and extensive experience in developing product and mobile applications.
Sai has spent 23 years in the dating business.
Peter created and operates Christian Filipina, a premium international dating site that allows serious men and women with a history or interest in the Philippines to meet safely, directly, with no intermediary.
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Peter has been highlighted by the BBC for fighting fraud in the online dating industry.
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He is also a co-founder of Honestdatingsites.org, an international alliance for honest dating sites.
Peter has spent 14 years in the dating business.
Mark Owen is the Founder of Events and Adventures, a members-only social club for single adults that has tens of thousands of members in various cities throughout the US and Canada.
Events & Adventures takes its members to every kind of social gathering where they find companionship and even love.
Mark has worked in the industry running E&A for 34 years now, making him our longest termer in the IDEA Ten Year Club.
Mark has spent 34 years in the dating business.
Violet started Lunch Actually with her husband Jamie 19 years ago after a stint at Citigroup.Â
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Today, Lunch Actually is Asia’s biggest premier lunch dating company with offices in Singapore, Hong Kong, Kuala Lumpur, Jakarta and Bangkok with the largest lunch dating membership base.
Together with Jamie, Violet also founded esync and LunchClick to fill the gap in the market for trusted online and offline dating service platforms. Lunch Actually Academy is established to provide singles with Dating and Image Consultancy, and Peerage provides high-end matchmaking services.
Violet has 2500+ media coverages such as The Straits Times, ABC News 20|20, CNBC Asia, BBC, Bloomberg and Radio Australia.
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Violet's life goal is to create 1 million happy marriages through the works of Lunch Actually Group.Â
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She studied Law in Manchester and has an MSc in Int'l Relations from London School of Economics.
Violet has spent 19 years in the dating business.
Jamie co-founded Lunch Actually in April 2004, together with his wife, Violet Lim. Lunch Actually is SouthEast Asia’s biggest dating group. He helped expand the businesses from Singapore to Malaysia, Hong Kong, Indonesia, and Thailand and broadened the range of products to include Dating Websites and Apps.
Jamie is the business mechanic behind the business who has helped build up the systems and products from nothing to ensure that the matches and operations are efficiently accomplished, and quality is assured. He loves to improve things and strive for the perfect system in all his businesses.
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Specialties: Start-Ups, Fund Raising, Product Development, and Building Systems
Jamie has spent 19 years in the dating business.
Sam is a seasoned entrepreneur and dating industry expert. He co-founded ChristianCafe.com in 1998 with a mission to help singles of faith connect worldwide. His journey began as a single individual exploring the early online dating scene, which led him to create a platform that combined his passion for business and the desire to help others find love.Â
As an entrepreneur, Sam has faced the challenges of operating in a competitive industry while maintaining the platform's core values. Today, he continues to contribute to the dating industry by sharing his expertise and constantly seeking ways to improve the experience for singles.Â
Sam has spent 25 years in the dating business.
Scott started VIDA Select in 2009 after helping a translation service grow. VIDA Select is a modern twist on matchmaking for the digital age. VIDA has a team of dating experts that work with singles on dating apps.Â
Scott also launched Enomour Matchmaking in 2021 a high-end matchmaking service. Enamour uses a combination of recruiting technology, AI, data science, and old-fashioned matchmaking intuition. Â
Scott has spent 14 years in the dating business.
Here is a complete list of RSVPs to LTR Edition 23
* Akshat Garg, Business Associate, Cupid's Arcade
* Alex Mellor-Brook, co-Founder, Select Personal Introductions
* Alex Tam, CEO, Paktor Group
* Amanda Ortiz, Event Manager, Flare Events
* Amber Kelleher-Andrews, CEO, Kelleher International
* Anthony Volpe, Former VP Marketing, Social Discovery Group
* Anusha Sridhar, Technical Program Engineer, Cupid's Arcade
* Armen Grigoryan, Founder, The Fun Singles
* Arsen Kazibekov, co-Founder, SANA
* Andrey Bronetski, CEO, Mamba.ru
* Ben Goodman, Marketing and Events Consultant, CitySwoon
* Brad Jones, Founder & CTO, Meet Kinkster
* Chine Mmegwa, Head, Global Corporate Development, Match Group
* Christoph Reisner, co-Founder, Koko
* Dawid Szczepaniak, COFO, Minx
* Dennie Smith, Founder, Meet Geek UK
* Devanshu Verma, co-Founder, Mingout
* Hasifi Wan Amin, co-Founder & MD, Baituljannah
* Hunt Ethridge, Founder, Hunt For Advice
* Giuliano Aluffi, Reporter, La Republica
* Jean-Marc Larouche, CEO, Belovy
* Lisa Wilke, COO, Sameera Sullivan Matchmaking
* Maria Avgitidis Pyrgiotakis, CEO, Agape Match
* Dr Martha Tara Lee, Chief Sexologist, DNA Romance
* Michal Wolniak, Investor, Minx
* Mike Krosky, President, Cherry Blossoms
* Milan Kovacic, CEO, Cosmic Latte
* Moses Brown, President, Mobeze, Inc.
* Mounika Thakkallapally, Data Engineer, Cupid's Arcade
* Natalia Sergovanseva, Founder, SoulMatcher
* Nils Breitmar, Head of Growth, Hornet
* Ram Narayanan, Software Engineer, Cupid's Arcade
* Ravi Raj, Product & Business Head, Woo
* Richmond Lartey, Founder, Cuplet
* Ritesh Bhatnagar, CMO, Woo
* Rob Fisher, Director of Product Development, Pink Triangle Press
* Robin Helmreich, Product Owner, LemonSwan
* Sarah Louise Ryan, Director, Tailor Matched
* Sergey Sigitov, co-Founder, Unison
* Sharan Anil Kumar, Founder, Cupid's Arcade
* Steven Macecevic, CEO, Datefit
* Tai Lopez, Co-Founder, Elite Meeting
* Tammy Shaklee, Founder & President, H4M Matchmaking
* Taylor Peretz, Senior Manager, Corporate Development and Investor Relations, Match Group
* Timothy Sexton, Founder & CEO, DNARomance
* Todd Sowers, COO, Perry Street Software
* Viktor Cindric, Director Of Design and Optimization, First Beat Media
* Vishal Sunil Kumar, UI/UX Developer, Cupid's Arcade
* Vladimir Zoric, Project Manager, First Beat Media
Every so often we like to run a startups event to showcase promising startups in the dating space. For this startups showcase we featured three diverse dating companies, and their CEOs. We chose Smitten, Feels and Nuit. Smitten is fun. Feels is oh so human. Nuit brings us love from the stars. All three apps are doing well, and Smitten and Feels have raised money successfully. Subscribe to OPW.news to stay up on their news.
See event page here
Our most popular event yet. We had 62 RSVPs from leaders of dating companies {37 of them CEOs}. No wonder, we had the father of the modern mobile dating industry speaking. Joel Simkhai started Grindr which started the mobile dating industry in earnest. He spoke about his new app MOTTO.  Then we had Dan Salmon, Principal at New Street Research overview their latest report on the dating industry and key trends.
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Professor Paul Dolan is a behavioral economist from the London School of Economics. He has an affinity for the dating industry. He wrote the book Happiness By Design and spoke at LTR 20 about how dating apps can work with academics. Then we had an overview of the Real Gifts platform by the CEO of Real Gifts and Reflex Media, which also operates Seeking. Ruben Buell is a dating industry veteran.  Â
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
At edition 19 we had the pleasure of Geoff Cook and Carmelia Ray presenting. Geoff, who is the CEO of The Meet Group, and co-CEO of ParshipMeet Group, presented on innovation and made some really interesting observations about the nature of the arc of innovation. Carmelia Ray is a celebrity matchmaker from Mom vs Matchmaker, and gave us some insights on "the future of content marketing, social selling, and brand recognition through TV and media."
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
Edition 18 was focused on one topic. Influencer marketing is a hot topic. Fitness focused dating apps are doing a good job with influencer marketing. We invited the CEO of Datefit to speak and he was kind enough to give us an overview of how he does influencer marketing, along with some of the idiosyncracies of the channels he is working with.
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
Our 17th edition was focused on Asia, and was set on Asia time for a change. The CEO of Paktor, Alex Tam, spoke about how Paktor has brought Asia together, and their various offerings. Delbert Ty is the CMO of Coffee Meets Bagel and spoke about dating industry maturity. Mark Brooks then held an extended Q&A, and covered topics such as influencer marketing.
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Dr Haluk Akin gave us an overview of how to manage multiple dating products with unified technology. Dr Akin is CEO/Founder of the 'meaningful relationships' focused dating service in Turkey: Pembe Panjur. Then Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO/Founder of S'More presented why community is so important for dating apps in the future.
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Paul Larsen has been focused on payment processing for 30 years now, and has advised the dating and social industries. He gave us a crucial update on new challenges, opportunities and a recommended list of providers for dating and online social communities.
See invitation site here, with attendees
Bill Alena gave us his and Dating Group's vision of the future for dating and social tech. specifically on how 'digital intimacy' will transform the space. Bill is Chief Investment Officer at Dating Group and actively acquiring and investing. We also had Courtney Kovacevich give us an overview of the Women In Dating initiative
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Hal Burg gave us an overview of how product placement works, and walked us through some examples in the dating and social space. David Siegel clarified on the meaning of Metaverse, and how it will warp and advance the way we experience social and dating. LTR online is now only 90 mins long. A networking session. plus two presentations.Â
This time we focused on interesting and inspiring startups. The CEO / Co-Founders of Fika, The Sauce and Himoon presented their founding and growth stories. Six co-founders in all. Denis Sandquist and Oscar Luo from Asian dating app Fika presented "How 'Real' is Better Than 'Perfect'". Emma Clark and Sachin Karia gave an overview of how they had integrated video profiles into The Sauce. Louis Dresse and Michael Couvreur from Himoon shared their founding story, challenges and vision.Â
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
At LTR 11 Geoff Cook, CEO/Co-Founder of The Meet Group gave us an overview of the creator economy and how The Meet Group is enabling companies to open up in one-to-many social/dating video. Then Neil Davis, CBO of The Real Me presented the year so far for advances in safety. We were then able to capture veteran Eddy Ankrett's personal story, and his thoughts on why the dating industry should work more closely with the matchmaking industry.Â
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
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All LTR events are diverse. LTR 10 was no exception. At LTR edition 10 we heard from the amazing Professor Pepper Schwartz on the science of matching.  Then Sean Lawrence from The Meet Group gave us an overview of how The Meet Group made video fun with gamification. Finally we got clued in some current issues and growth opportunities on Facebook and Instagram marketing with expert Dennis Yu, who formerly worked in the dating industry many years ago at Yahoo Personals. Â
We enjoyed a phenomenal presentation by Yu-kai Chou, a gamification and behavioral design master, and author of Actionable Gamification. Then Dr Timothy Sexton gave us an overview of how he is on a mission to use DNA to forecast 'romantic chemistry.' Finally, Simon Corbett and Mark Brooks introduced the calendar of IRL GDI conferences and LTR Summits in 2021-2022, an entire year of events pre-planned, and then interviewed each other about their involvement with the dating and social industries.
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
LTR Edition 8 welcomed author Jon Birger to speak about his latest book "Make Your Move" and the key relevant points for dating communities. Then Barbara Soltysinkska, the CEO of International influencer network Indahash, gave us the inside track on how to work with influencer networks.. Shauny Ullman then gave us an overview of her new service, Clean Bill of Health, (CBOH). There's a need for communicating covid status and other health information, and her platform is an example of one that fulfills that need.
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
Another sold-out LTR, we were super thrilled to hear Dr Helen Fisher, a powerhouse top-flight anthropologist with a long history in Internet dating. She is Chief Scientific Officer at Match since 2005, and is Senior Research Fellow at Kinsey Institute. Then Carsten Boltz presented on growth strategy. He's CEO of Online Personals Group with properties in 37 countries and a team of 160. Carsten is a member of IDEA Ten Year Club, Anthony Volpe, CMO at Tawkify, overviewed how Tawkify has done well despite the pandemic.
Gitte Bendzilla, the MD of public company, Spark Networks was interviewed by Mark Brooks about her 2 years at Spark. Alex Durrant, the CEO/Founder of Jigsaw talked about the rise and recent raise of Jigsaw. They just raised $3.7m. Henning Wiechers is a long term mega-affiliate in Germany who is an expert on the DACH market and he gave us the benefit of his insights on the DACH markets. All in all, another diverse and fascinating line up, enjoyed by a packed room of online community leaders and luminaries.Â
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Edition 5 in Feb 2021 featured celebrity matchmaker Patti Stanger, a.k.a. the millionaire matchmaker. Patti produced and starred in "The Millionaire Matchmaker" for 7 years and is probably the world's most famous matchmaker. Geoff Cook gave us an overview of the vPaaS product which enables PlentyoffFish and is opening up to work with more dating and online social communities. Zach Zhleien is a startup CEO with a penchant for data and video, and gave us his thoughts on video dating.
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Our 4th LTR featured noted conversions and digital design specialist Tim Ash talking through some fascinating pricing model designs. Ross Williams from White Label Dating appealed to the industry to work together more and gave some examples of lucrative ways to do that. David Minns of Platform Dating talked us through some of his extreme niche products and gave us insight on why the products work, and how well they're doing.
See invitation site here with speakers and attendees
LTR #3 was another landmark event. Harvard Business School's Professor Ashley Whillans gave us an overview of her findings from behavioral science on how our time can be used in a more personally fulfilling way. Dr Mari-Sanna Paukkerri, CEO of Utopia Analytics, shared how advanced language independent AI is being used for UGC review. Then Catherine Connelly, a notable long termer in the dating industry started her company at age 15, and has guided The Meet Group to it's current $360m a year.
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Once again, LTR filled to capacity within 72 hours of invitations being sent out. The CEO/Founder of Hornet explained how he transitioned Hornet from being a dating app to being an online social community. The CEO of RealMe defined how reputation data is making users safer. Professor Robert Metcalfe walked us through how we can measure consumer value. We also got a half hour networking session before and after the speakers session, so attendees could meet fellow industry leaders on small tables of six. Â
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The very first LTR online conference happened September 10th, 2020 and was attended by 99 leaders and luminaries (including 72 CEO/Founders of dating and online social communities). Professor Iyengar of Columbia University spoke about the Art of Decision Making. Geoff Cook, CEO of The Meet Group gave us the inside-track on the rise of video. The Godfather of reality TV, Jon Murray, was interviewed. Â
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